It’s an open secret. Most men have had a glimpse at pornography, at least once in their lives. While some might watch or look at it occasionally, for others, it is a daily drug, which becomes confusing for their partners. Are you okay with your partner watching porn? Mwereti Kanjo asks women on the street for their honest opinions.
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Ireen Khoza from Mulanje
I am actually quite happy about it because he will not want to go and experience the things he sees elsewhere. Other than that, watching it together means you have a lot of exciting things to look forward to going to bed. In fact, I would rather he watches the movie right before bed so that he is all fired up and has a lot of energy. It is not a bad thing, especially if you know of it.
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Marriam M’bwana from Ndirande.
I would personally be disturbed about it. The movies will do nothing but put nasty ideas in his head and being a shy person, he will not want to share with me his partner but go and try it somewhere else. Maybe even with a prostitute who is willing to do whatever for money. It is a dangerous game to play.
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Kerita Hau from Machinjiri
I am okay with it. Because he will not find anything strange when he wants to try out some of the things he sees. It is an opportunity for him to learn and bring some excitement to the bedroom. So too if you want to try something, he will not find anything strange with it.
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Abigail Mahemani-Nkolokosa
I think I would be okay with it only if he doesn’t watch it all the time. It is sort of exciting when your man tries new things but I would rather not know where he has learnt them.
