I am 33 and my guy is a sight to behold. Really. He makes me feel all the tingly things inside. And I am not afraid to say that his love below makes me feel a bit intimidated.
But ultimately, his problem is that he does not know how to work with the blessings God gave him. It is just always so awkward. It seems he is quite uncomfortable with his package. (It is like he was told go and figure it out with it!).
Biggie, ain’t you have time to talk to him or ABCing him on these matters?
TSK, Manja, Blantyre via WhatsApp
It always makes me sad when I hear stories of cheating. Maybe, you wanted to fool me, but I am not your type and I won’t be hoodwinked by your well-crafted tale. My understanding of your problem is that you have been fooling around with other men before and the man you are with now is a bit lacking or your husband (you have not said so, but I am working on assumptions here) is lacking in the bedroom department compared to your side dish (a boyfriend or sugar dad). I might be wrong, but I can bet my last coin that there is no way you can know that your man is lacking unless you have been with a chain of men before!
So hear this, my little child, you are playing with fire. Men, especially the men you are fooling around with, the men who are making you demean your man, the men who make you to repeatedly come, might have gained experience by sleeping with other women. You might think you are having fun, but you are not.
Here is what you need to do dearest TSK; dump your side dishes, love your man, open up about his valuable assets, talk to him, guide him and lead the way. After all, you seem to have mastered quite some experience, teach him how to last long or work his wand. Biggie, I am sorry to say, cannot do it for you!