In his song Grenade, Bruno Mars lyrics; I would catch a grenade for you, throw my hand on a blade for you, I would jump in front of a train for you. You know I would do anything for you; I would go through all this pain. Take a bullet straight through my brain. Yes, I would die for you baby. But you won’t do the same.
Things we do or say for love. That is how Mars chronicled his emotions and whether or not he meant it, or simply spiced the song is for any decent and reasonable person to judge.
The trending video of a woman inserting a Coca-Cola bottle into her private parts is something I’m not ready to judge. Many have commented about it already, with some calling her a victim of a man’s insatiable appetite for kinkiness because, by her own admission, the woman claims to be pleasing his demands. She claims the invisible man asked her to supposedly masturbate for him in a vehicle and she obliges. Whether or not his demands included the object of her affection in this case, it’s not clear. She adds; “I am obedient to you”.
The two are consenting adults who are above 18 and she did not do what she did at gun point. He asked and she chose to do it. Out of love. On who is the deranged individual here, whether it’s the doer of the demands or the demander, I leave it to you to judge.
Another singer Meatloaf, in his song I’ll do anything for love (but I won’t do that) mentions a number of things he would do such as run right into hell and back and never to lie. But he is clear about what he would not do, asserting his right to choose. The woman in the video, too, chose to do what she did for ‘love’.
I have spoken here before about the need to slow down on these nude photos and videos that we get carried away with when in love. Vengeful pornography has and still is the scariest thing couples can engage in. These are matters of choices, but I implore those of you madly in love to begin learning lessons from others. Lives and families are being ruined over something agreed upon by two intimate people who, for whatever reasons, eventually make their agreement public. Now that we know the consequences, well, it is up to everyone concerned.
And for our Coca-Cola bottle woman, I must say she must truly love this ungrateful dude she went to all that length for. Inserting such an unprecedented object to please him speaks volumes. I do not know the healthy risks, but I still shudder at the imagination of the bottle inside the modesty of a woman. The risks are many, in my view, but hey, who am I to scream; “Don’t you ever do that again girlfriend”! She can insert a whole Mini Cooper vehicle for all I care, after all she is an adult. If it’s not love she did it for, it must be some incentive or indeed for her own satisfaction.
I must add that this was my first time to see such a sight, a whole bottle effortlessly invade this woman’s privacy. And from her version, more pictures of object insertions were revealed. Another similar, but more intense was released of a woman doing things with a Heineken bottle. Yet, another was seen inserting a canned drink down yonder. Whatever happened to the natural way of doing things?
Things we do for love and pleasure.